By Mary
Tennant
Sharon pulled into the car park of her apartment complex. She sighed and
thanked God that she had made it home without an accident. Driving in this
place was like entering a war zone; there seemed to be no rules other than being
ahead of everyone else. How she longed for the courtesy of drivers back home in
Ireland who would not only make way for her but also would smile and wave at
the same time!
She had moved to Chile six months previously, her husband Mike had been
excited at the prospect of a new direction, new country and new work
opportunities. Sharon had not been so excited; she had to leave her position as
a social worker at the hospital near her home, it was a satisfying occupation
and she loved it. Their children were studying at university and though they
had both moved out of home they were regular visitors. Her parents lived close
by and they saw each other at least once a week and she had a tight knit group
of friends.
Her friends had been very excited about her move. Most had heard little
about a country called Chile and when rumours of an apartment complex with
swimming pool, a maid and Spanish lessons filtered out she was the envy of all.
Ireland was going through tough times; most of her friends and some of their
husbands had lost jobs or had been forced to take part time work. This move was
a lifesaver for her husband, who was next in line in the office to lose his
job, had he not taken the challenge of moving to Chile.
Their apartment was on the 12th floor and from the terrace
they could see the Andes. When they first arrived it was winter and the mountains
were covered in snow. Today as she pushed her shopping trolley from the lift
she thought: ‘What mountains? I can’t
even see them for the smog.’ As she unpacked the trolley and placed the
items in the cupboards her thoughts were on dinner. She had wanted to make
their favourite cod cobbler but had stood before the fish counter for several
minutes wondering which fish she could substitute for cod. Even making Irish
shortbread had presented problems because she could not find caster sugar. What
sort of country doesn’t have caster sugar! At the small goods counter she had
picked up a packet of bacon and was so disgusted by its contents, she threw it
as far as she dared. ‘They call that
bacon!’ She thought. In the end for dinner she resorted to steak, salad and
fruit – ‘what else do Chileans eat?’ she thought aloud.
But she did resolve to find a teacher and begin Spanish lessons.
“Hi honey I’m home! What’s for dinner? I’m starved,” called Mike as he
opened the door, his mind occupied with what sort of mood his wife would be in.
“What do you think is for dinner!” she screamed.
‘Oh dear it’s going to be a long
night,’ he thought.
She poured him a glass of fine Chilean wine and they sat on the terrace,
he patiently listened as she listed her frustrations of the day.
“The washing was stuck in the dryer for two hours and I couldn’t work
out how to open the door.” She started.
“Couldn’t you ask Franchesca to open it?” He asked. Franchesca was
their Nana.
“No, she is useless,” she replied. “She doesn’t even know how it works
and she speaks Spanish! There is no English version in the instruction manual. I
just want to go home,” She sobbed.
“Wasn’t there anything good that happened?" he asked eventually.
I went walking this morning with the expatriate ladies and found out
that you can buy Guinness from a shop called Mundo del Vino, I thought that was
a wine shop but apparently they sell beer as well.”
“Well that’s a bonus,” he said.
“Yes but how do I get it home, I’m not driving the car to that
ridiculously busy road that I can never pronounce and be buggered if I’m
walking home with all those heavy bottles.” She said.
“We can go on the weekend, I can drive and if we go early enough I’m
sure we can find a car park nearby, the Chilenos aren’t normally up too
early on weekends.”
Mike pushed his bike into the bodega at his office. He loved the
ride to work, it wasn’t a long ride and whilst he had to negotiate the
pedestrians on the pavement and cars at the traffic lights he had his route
down and enjoyed his daily
commute. He laughed to himself thinking of his friends back in Dublin who would
be driving for at least an hour in the rain, paying a fortune for parking. Here
there was no fee, no rain and it was a short pleasant journey.
That was not all he loved about living in Santiago. Mike had a great
job. He worked for a London based merchant bank that had offices in South
America and he was responsible for upgrading the networks and linking them in
with other offices around the world. For Mike this was a big promotion; he had
previously been part of a large information technology team, but in Chile he
had sole responsibility for the upgrades and he loved the challenge.
There were definitely challenges, some were minor annoyances. For
example, the office had a tea lady serving him at his desk and he hated it when
everyone disappeared for a two-hour lunch break. On his first day everyone
stood up and left the office at 2:00 pm, he thought maybe there was a fire
drill but they just all went to lunch and did not return for another two hours!
Mike would rather have a quick lunch and be home with Sharon, especially on
those days that she called him in tears. They were becoming more frequent. But
there were major challenges too – he was finding his co-workers were very
resistant to change.
“That’s how we do it In Chile” was a constant retort when he asked why
they did not use more efficient practices. When there was a public holiday
during the week people took a day or two either side of the designated holiday,
without asking and with no regard to looming deadlines. That really pissed him
off.
He sat at his desk one morning and reflected on the past six months. He
had known it was going to be hard for Sharon to leave her job but he thought
she would have embraced the challenge of a new country and language more than
she had. He was pleased she had found a group of English speaking
expatriate wives, because it gave her people to talk to; but each time they met she came home with
another outlandish story about Chile.
“You know they abandon their dogs in parks when they tire of them, and
they fill their trolleys in the grocery store just to show off to others that they can
afford it.” “So and so got robbed on the metro the other day, one of the girls
said we should never take the metro; it’s too dangerous.” “The students are
rioting tomorrow and they get violent and throw rocks so you must not leave the
office.”
Try as he might he could not get her to see that this was all nonsense.
He travelled the metro regularly to get to meetings and sure you had to
be careful but you had to be careful in Dublin too, in any big city for that
matter. As for the other stories she recounted, Mike could not understand how
these women could fabricate them. ‘Don’t
they have anything else to do,’ he thought.
He didn’t want Sharon become like them. She was more intelligent than
that.
“Hi honey I’m home. What’s for dinner I’m starved?” He couldn’t see her
but he could hear her crying from the bedroom.
“Nothing. Get it
yourself!” she said. “I just want to go home.”
‘Oh dear! It was going to be
another long night,’ Mike thought.
About a month later Mike was sitting at his desk when Sharon called him.
“I think we should go out for dinner.” She said. “I don’t feel
like cooking.”
“Sure.” He answered. “What are you eating now?" He asked, detecting
that she was chewing on something.
“Lunch,” she replied.
“Where are you?” he said.
“In Jumbo.”
“Do they have a restaurant in Jumbo?” He asked
“Yes, but I’m not there I’m just eating some biscuits that I took from
the shelf, everyone does that here.”
Mike could not believe his ears “You what? Are you going to pay for
them?”
“No,” was the reply.
They ate dinner in an Italian restaurant that was near their home.
“Tell me about this eating food in Jumbo,” Mike asked.
“Ha, that’s what Chileans do, they just help themselves to what’s on the
shelf, it’s like a game, just don’t get caught!” Mike was incredulous, he had
never known his wife to lie, let alone steal.
“But don’t the people at the checkout see you?”
“No that’s the point, you have to sneak around and not get caught, it’s
a game. It puts a whole new slant on having lunch at Jumbo, hey!”
They both laughed.
“Promise me you won’t go taking TV’s, Okay?”
Sharon smiled she loved the way he accepted her.
“I found a school that teaches Tango, do you know what that is?” she
asked.
“A South American dance?” He answered.
“Argentinian actually and there is a good school near our apartment,
called El Baile del Abrazo.”
“What does that mean?” Mike asked.
“I’ll let you know when my Spanish gets better.” She replied. “Anyhow
the school is not far from our apartment and the teachers are all
Argentineans – apparently they are the best tango dancers.”
“Ok, if that makes you happy.” He replied. Mike was pleased that his
wife had found another outlet and hoped that this would give her a chance to
adapt to life in Chile.
Over the next month Sharon’s mood improved, she lost a little weight,
bought some new clothes and stopped coming home with exaggerated stories about
Chile.
“Isn’t that dress a bit short for you?” He commented one day after
returning from work.
“You think so? But that’s the fashion here, haven’t you noticed? I’m
just blending in.” She replied.
He had to admit she looked good, but he was used to her somewhat
conventional style of dress, this was out of character.
Around two months later Mike returned home earlier than usual and heard
Sharon on the phone. She was speaking in Spanish and he smiled at how competent
she had become in such a small period of time.
“Who was that?” he asked when she put the phone down.
“My tango teacher.” She said. “He is organising for a group of us to go
to Argentina for a two week trip to attend a school there.”
“Oh! And when is this?” Mike was shocked, they had not been apart for
more than a few days since they were married and that was when she accompanied
her parents on a holiday. He was completely taken aback that she had not even
asked if he minded.
“Not till next month, I was going to tell you tonight but you’re home early
and heard my conversation. There’s a group of us going.”
He had not understood a word of her Spanish conversation. He noted that
she was wearing another new short dress, very red lipstick and her hair was
different. For the first time he wondered who this tango teacher was that his
wife was hanging out with and was now planning to go away with. ‘Should I be worried? Should I try to stop
her?’ He thought. But in the end he trusted his wife, she had
never given him any indication that she was unhappy in their marriage and after
all they had both agreed to make the most of seeing as much of South America as
possible.
The whole time that she was away he was worried; he tried to throw
himself into his work. Sharon rang each evening with news of the day. Sharon
seemed happy and flirted with him over the phone. She told him that she had
bought him a leather jacket in Buenos Aires and that she was looking forward to
coming home.
“How’s your teacher?” he asked on one call.
“Oh he’s great, you should see him dance with the girls here, they are
so skilled. I look like the ugly duckling compared to them.” She said.
That made Mike feel a little better, maybe he was overreacting.
Sharon returned home and they resumed their routine, her Spanish was
improving and he found himself relying on her to translate when they went out. It
irritated him but he did have the time to devote to learning the language, much
as he would have liked. She continued to take tango lessons and wear red
lipstick. At home she cooked great meals and was always happy to see him.
Work began to aggravate Mike. His co-workers were resisting change and
his superiors were becoming alarmed at his lack of progress. A man was sent
from London to check on why things were going so slowly and Mike found it
difficult to explain the Chilean way of doing things, his explanations seemed
lame and he knew that his superior was displeased. Mike was unhappy with
himself and determined to speed up the progress, despite the attitude of his
fellow workers. If he couldn’t bring them with him he would jolly well do it
himself and they would have to update their own systems to catch on.
In the following weeks he began to institute change and he became
increasingly unpopular in the office. It was a situation he became despondent
with. He had always been well liked at work and now he felt uncomfortable in
the office. He felt the disdain of his fellow workers and was relieved to leave
the office and go home each night.
One evening Mike returned from work and was wheeling his bike into the
lift as usual, when a middle-aged woman spoke to him in Spanish.
“I’m sorry I don’t speak Spanish, I don’t understand you,” he said.
“You are not allowed to take your bike in the lift, you will break the
mirror glass. You should leave your bike in your bodega.” Mike was
flabbergasted; it was as much what she said as how she said it with such
authority. It made him feel like a child to be chastised in this manner, and
the concierge had never mentioned it in the months he had been living there. Who
was this woman and what gave her the right to tell him what he could and could
not do in his rented apartment? “I’m sorry.” He murmured.
“You’ll be fined if you do that again,” she said. Mike was furious.
The next day at work Mike sat at his desk and looked around the office. He
felt the prying eyes of his fellow workers, he felt confined by the rules of
his apartment and the righteousness of the woman who had told him off for
taking his bike in the lift. He was overwhelmed by a desire to break down and
cry; and that made him feel worse.
“Don’t be such a wuss.” He chastised himself. He sat at his desk
and looked out the window.
At midday he went for a walk, he walked all afternoon and did not return
to the office. That night he tossed and turned in bed. In the morning he
did not go to work. Sharon was worried but went about her usual routine.
Mike skyped his friend in Dublin.
“How’s the weather?”
“The same,” he said.
“How’s work?”
“The same,” came the reply.
He thought of the cold wet winters back home and looked out of his
window and saw the mountains. He went for a walk and he saw Sharon on the other
side of the road, she did not notice him. She looked fantastic. ‘Another new dress.’ He thought. He
decided to follow her. She went into a building. “Clases de Tango.” The sign said. “Profesores de Argentina.”
“Mph, so this is where she meets her teacher.” He muttered.
He followed her in and saw her approach a very trim looking dark haired
man in tight flares, he pecked her on the cheek and pinched her bottom! Mike
was incensed but he could hardly make a scene because he would have exposed
himself. He quickly retreated.
Mike found himself returning to work. He sat thinking for a long time at
his desk and then he called his secretary into his office.
“I have a few jobs for you.” He said as he handed over a list, “and the
last one needs careful attention.” She looked at his list and smiled. “Sure I
know just the place,” she replied.
The next day Mike went to work and his secretary winked at him.
“I left the address on your desk.” She said, “8:00 pm tonight.” She
winked again.
That evening after dinner Mike got up from the table and changed into
some casual clothes.
“Where are you going?” Sharon asked.
“To tango lessons.” He replied.